Getting a girl’s number is not too hard to do these days. However, wondering at the first text message to a girl might be a thing which is bothering you.
In this post, I will provide you lots of first text messages that you can use to send a girl. Let’s start.
Throughout whattotextagirlyoulike101.com I say that every guy should start with a RADAR text if he wants a text conversation with a girl.
I learnt about RADAR text from my friend Bobby Rio and his classic Magnetic Massaging. For the first text, RADAR text is the best text to start with.
However, if you didn’t buy Magnetic Massaging and don’t know what a RADAR text is, then you may start with a humorous text which should be funny too.
Let’s start with some first text messages to start with:
#1. Direct Flirting –
You can start text flirting with a girl by making it obvious that you are flirting with her. Here is an example –
You: “You are a very good-looking and sweet girl. What should I text you to impress you?”
Do you know why this text works? This text works because most guys generally don’t dare to text this way. And if she is hot, it is almost possible that no one ever dared to text her this way.
Also, if she is hot, you are competition with a league of guys – not from just one. Think about what advantage you will have if you do the exact opposite of most of guys are doing with her.
In this case, most of guys are just begging for her response, and you making it obvious that you are flirting with her in a direct way.
#2. Play push-pull –
Most PUAs talk a lot about this in their websites. And I have to say that push-pull technique is also great while you are texting a girl.
See below example.
You: “Your boobs are very sexy…A girl told me this the other day. Can you please explain what she wanted to say me?”
In this text, you first made her feel sexy (the pull), and letter you said that the text was not for her (the push). However, be sure that you can dare to text her above text message.
#3. Start with a Joke –
Do you know we all want fun? When it comes to dating, women always prefer a fun guy over a serious guy to date with. Your first text message to her can be a joke. However, your joke should convey your unique personality.
It should not be a joke all guys are sending each other. See the below example (I found a similar text like this on Facebook , thereafter I modified it and I used it myself):
Me: “The rule of success: whenever you face a tough situation in your life, always consult a girl…….and do exactly opposite of her advice. Success will be yours.”
I sent this text message to a girl whose attitude was that all men were fool.
Without any doubt I got her response within two minutes.
You can find other funny text messages on the web; you just need to modify them so that they convey your unique personality.
#4. Use Pickup lines –
Do you know pickup lines also work as an opening text message? The only caution with pickup lines is that you should not use them with dead seriousness. Use them in a fun way. See the below examples:
“Do you have a sunburn, or are you always this hot?”
“I seem to have lost my phone number. Can I have yours?”
“Are you a camera? Because every time I look at you, I smile.”
For some of you, it might seem lame jokes, but they work dude if you use them in a right way.
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