How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text – Examples

how to flirt with a girl over examplesWhen it comes to text flirting with a girl, most guys don’t have any goal in doing so.

In this post, I am not about to give you general advice on how to flirting with a girl over text.

The most general advice you get on this topic on the other websites are something like, ‘tease her’ ‘send her funny text message’ ‘make her smile’ ‘Google funny text messages for’ and so on.

If you want to learn how to text flirt with a girl, you must be clear about what you want from a text flirting.

If you have no goal about this, you should not try to flirt with her over text. Moreover, why do you want to flirt with her if you don’t any goal to do so?

Anyway, in my opinion flirting with a girl through text is good if you want to date her later. In fact, you should start flirting with her over text if you want to set up a meet up next day or the day after tomorrow. And it’s not that hard.

So, how to flirt with a girl over text? Follow the below tips:

How to Flirt with a Girl Over Text –

Tip #1. Start with an inside joke –

I met this girl a few months ago in a friend’s party. After a general talk, I had a dance competition with her. Including her most of my colleagues enjoyed the dace competition. When she gave me her number, I teased her about her dance and she responded me positively.

The next day, I sent below text to her.

Me: “I am wondering if you are doing dance practice to beat me next time :-)”

This is called a inside joke. Through that text, I sparked the same emotions she had while she was with me at that party.

This text talked about something we both shared. Moreover, talking about an inside joke is always better than sending the general ‘hey beautiful’ text if you want to flirt with her at that time.

Now see the whole conversation I had with her.

Me: “I am wondering if you are doing dance practice to beat me next time :-)”

Her: “Hahaha…so what are you doing Alex”

Me: “Texting you :-)”

Her: “Funny…so you are a free time text buddy:-/” 

(See how she tested me. A girl always tests a guy before she makes him her boyfriend. It’s normal and you have to pass this test if you want to date her.)

Me: “I have one suggestion for you.”

(See how I ignored her test and changed the topic without being nervous or angry.)

Her: “What…!”

Me: “Don’t be too cruel to your legs. Give them rest. Do less dance practice.”

Her: “Hahaha…”

In my previous article How to ask a girl out over text, I said that the moment a girl laughs at your text is the time to ask her out for a date.

Next day, this girl hanged out with me with my friends. So, flirt with a girl by talking about an inside joke and it will be easier for you to keep the conversation going on with you and ask her out.

Tip #2. Use reverse psychology with humor –

Once you send her the Radar Text (See more about Radar text in Magnetic Messaging report) you should try to warm up her by using reverse psychology and humor.

Normally, a girl is molested by a group of guys. What if you say her that you are just molested by a group of girls? You can send below text message to flirt with her.

You: “I went to a new work place, and I was just molested by a group of cougars.”

If you send this text, then most probably she would ask you ‘then what did you do’ or she send you a ‘Hahaha…’ text. Now see below how should you response.

You: “I went to a new work place, and I was just molested by a group of cougars.”

Her: “Hahaha…then what did you do!!!”

You: “Just enjoyed being molested :-)”

This type of flirting text will transform you from ‘just another guy’ to ‘a fun loving guy with whom she would like to date’.

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About Alex J. Stevenson
Alex J. Stevenson is not a kind of dating expert who bangs a woman one night and runs after another one next morning. Instead, he is a fun-loving guy who has been reading dating and psychology books since last 6 years. If you tired of none working PUAs bullshit, you're welcome to his website.

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6 thoughts on “How to Flirt With a Girl Over Text – Examples

  1. Michael

    Nice post, but I have a question for you.

    What if I am a low confident guy who is afraid to tease a girl over text? I can’t afford a negative response from her. I’ll also feel awkward even if she doesn’t response me.

    However, I am also afraid that if I don’t flirt with her over text then someone can do the same, and my dream to become her boyfriend can remain a dream for life time. Please suggest me. She is super hot.

    Reply
    1. Alex J. Stevenson Post author

      Hi Michael,

      When you buy Magnetic Messaging system you will learn that texting a girl with a hope of a reply is the key thing you should avoid. In fact, you should not hope any response while you craft your first RADAR text.

      RADAR text is actually a unique text which is crafted to get attention of a girl without hoping for her response. And when you properly craft a RADAR text without expecting any response from her, then most probably you will get a positive response.

      If you are a low confident guy then you should build confidence in your face to face interaction with other girls. However, you can hide your emotions behind your texts but when you take her on a date, you have to manage your confidence level.

      Lastly, if she is hot then most guys are also trying to score her. Therefore, you should take action before it will too late.

      Reply
    1. Alex J. Stevenson Post author

      Yes Wyatt, you can do so. Just remember that you are going to do so in a fun way – not in a desperate way.

      Example:

      “Your cheeks are rosy. What do you paint on them!!! :-)”

      Reply

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