When looking at the best ways to get a girl interested via text messaging, the following 10 examples are some of the fastest and proven methods to be successful.
Follow these simple methods and she will be sexting back before you know it! Please read on for the best in How to Sexting.
1. Be Respectful
Yes, your ultimate goal is to get this girl into the sack. You hope to quickly achieve this via sexting.
However, the majority of women are going to run and block your number if you start with sexting right out of the gate.
Therefore, it is crucial that you get the ball rolling by approaching her from a polite and respectful place at the beginning. You need to establish her trust in you, and to give her a sense of security.
Important note: Absolutely do not attempt to send naked or vulgar pics in the first few rounds of your sexting relationship. Behaving in this manner could result in some very unpleasant consequences.
Do make sure to ask if you can send her a face pic so that she can use it to add to her contacts. This will insure that she has a great picture of you to look at when she is thinking of you.
She will be sure to sext all the quicker if she has this. Please also note that it is okay to use some standard text abbreviations, but do not overuse them or let your messages look like a big ball of nonsense. That is a turn off.
2. Use Humor
Some of the strongest and most exciting relationships are the ones that start out with healthy humor as a base.
Making her laugh (especially when she is having a bad day) makes her feel better, releases hormones that make you even more funny texts, and sharing a good laugh means that the trust factor mentioned above is firmly established.
Humor is also a great way to break the ice and relieve tension when you are not really sure what to say next. Sending funny texts is a great means to reach your goal of sexting.
3. Compliment Her
One of the best ways to excite a girl and further establish trust is to give her compliments. Keep them simple and to the point.
An example would be “I bet your eyes are extra blue today. You always dress so well too.”
As she begins to open up more, you can begin the preliminary sexting; i.e. “I would love to kiss your gorgeous lips soon.”
4. Take Her Out
A simple date or two with the right actions will have her breathless with anticipation and ready to take things to the next level.
Make sure to listen intently to what she says while gazing into her eyes. Lean in to lightly brush her hair back from her face after a meal or drink.
Tell her a few personal stories to get her to open up and share more with you.
Make sure you text her something like “Thank you so much for a wonderful time tonight. Text you in the morning?”
She will be eager for you to text her, and will look for that first thing when she awakens. Make sure that you follow through.
You want her to anticipate and look forward to seeing you again; in this way, she will be even closer to fulfilling your how to sexting goals.
She will want to talk more, and she will initiate contact and also be a little bolder with her texts because she is missing you.
5. Move In Slowly
Now is the time to move in slowly but surely to seal the deal. She wants to see more of you, she is often texting you first, and she has become more comfortable and at ease with texting you in general.
Things are leaning more towards a romantic theme. When you know she trusts you, move in confidently.
Send her a text similar to the one above (“I would love to kiss your gorgeous lips soon”) in Example 3. She will probably reply with something like,
“I would like to kiss you too”,
“Thank you. That would be really nice.”
At this point, you are able to come on a little stronger. After work, text her and ask her if she is settled for the evening and say
“Would love to text more tonight.”
This is pretty much a guarantee at this point that she will answer with a big “OK!”
6. Use a Tested and True Method
One of the classic lines, which actually originated in regular phone calls, has now become a staple of sexting as well.
“What are you wearing right now?”
This is a great way to begin your new sexting success. After you chat briefly about her day, etc., this is a great line to use to get her to explore the wonderful world of sexting.
She will probably giggle, blush, and then say something like
“Well, I am relaxing so I have my pink babydoll gown on.”
Then you can flirt with her by sexting like,
“I bet you look so sexy! Do you think that I could see?”
She is very likely to sext you a pic at this point. Get ready for even more excitement! Make sure to compliment her beauty and tell her
“I would love to keep texting tonight if you are up for it.”
7. Keep Communication Open
Always keep her wanting more, as in do not over text or text her immediately after you see her.
However, because you have established her trust, you do want to follow through. Keep the regular texting communications open.
This will make her much more open to sexting, and likely that soon she will be initiating some of the first lines.
Text her in the morning when you are sure that she is up. At this time, you can send a text something like,
“A beautiful morning for a beautiful person :-)”
This is a good example. Then you can bet that later in the day or evening, she will be hot and ready for sexting!
8. Ask for More Pics
The normal way to ask pics of her is texting her like “I can’t stop thinking about you. I would love another couple of pics, maybe a little naughty this time? ;)”.
You can do the same thing without appearing needy. Se the example:
You: “The ice bucket challenge for you…Can you dare to send your pics in which you are doing naughty things!!”
She will also be interested in some naughty pics of you if she has sent you more that one of herself.
By all means, keep the pics to yourself. You have a good thing going; no need to ruin it.
9. More Sexting Lines
Here are more ideas of great sexting lines to send her to keep thing going. You should, at this point, be venturing into actually living your sexting fantasies out in real time as well. 😉
“I would love to cum see you tonight.”
“I bet that gown you’re wearing is lovely, but wouldn’t I look better on you?”
“Are you in bed yet? Would love to be between the sheets with you right now.”
“I have been so turned on thinking about you all day.”
“I had to leave work early because you were running through my mind all day. I couldn’t get anything done.”
“I have a special gift for you tonight.”
“I have a naughty surprise that I have been wanting to share with you.”
“I’ve been waiting for you to sext me all day.”
“Texting last night was fun. Want to act it out in real life?”
“You are so gorgeous. I love it when you blush. I can’t wait to make your cheeks flush later.”
“How did I get so lucky to have someone as hot as you?”
“Wear that dress I like so much. Although I can’t wait to rip it off of you!”
“You have great legs. Is that why you’ve been running through my mind all day?”
10. Maintain What You Have Accomplished
Once again, you have a good thing going here. If you suddenly break off communication, or you communicate too little, the trust she has for you will be broken; then you will have to do all of the work over again to get back to the point of sexting.
If you don’t keep in touch, she will be turned off and not want to receive a random sext out of the blue.
How to Sexting is easy and quite fun if you see and follow the examples above. Going slow and steady will result to insure that you enjoy a long and luscious sexting life.
There is something about the anticipation involved: dreaming of what you want to do to each other when you are together, then typing that out to make it a real possibility.
A woman loves seduction; a woman loves to be wooed and pursued in the right manner.
One of the beauties of this instant communication world we live in is that we can easily establish trust and excitement with someone via text messaging, and via the wonderful arena of sexting.
Many relationships are strengthened and thrive through sexting and keeping things lively.
The words “What are you wearing right now?” and “How would you like to be in my bed tonight?” suddenly have much more force and the ability to reach your sexting goals.
What are some of the successful sexting lines you have sent to a woman?
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Alex J. Stevenson
Alex J. Stevenson is not a kind of dating expert who bangs a woman one night and runs after another one next morning. Instead, he is a fun-loving guy who has been reading dating and psychology books since last 6 years. If you tired of none working PUAs bullshit, you're welcome to his website.