So, right to the point you want to know what to text a girl you just met.
Probably, you went to a bar/ nightclub/ party and got interaction with a girl. You excited her and she gave her number to you.
You just came home, and now you are wondering what and how to text her.
No problem! I will give you examples of what to text her.
You just need to forget about what you have read on other website which provided you superficial tips.
What to Text a Girl You Just met –
In my previous article How to start a text conversation with a girl, I said that the curiosity text is one of the best texts to send a girl to start a conversation.
But when it comes to texting a girl you just met, you need to consider the other strategy which is called Radar Text (You can get fully description about Radar Text in the best text messaging book Magnetic Messaging).
While you are texting a girl you just met, you need to consider just two things:
- Sparking emotions
- Making connections
Women are emotional creatures. They do things based on their current emotions. Furthermore, they are hard to be convinced by logistics.
Anyway, when you are going to text her, you should bear in mind that your text should spark her emotions and your follow-up texts should make connection with her.
Or your first text should do the both things. Let me give you an example of my friend Joe.
An Example of my friend Joe – Learn from him
Joe was an average single and frustrated guy. He often went to bars. One day he met with a woman named Sue. Sue was a young and single parent of her two kids.
During the conversation, Joe found that the Sue’s father had passed away when Sue was a kid. When Sue left the bar, she said that she had to go home early because her kids were alone.
Joe got her number. When he returned home, he texted a texted which sparked her emotions and which made her feel connected with Joe.
Here is the Joe’s text:
“I know how it feels when a kid grows up with a single parent, because I have felt it. My mom was passed away when I was a kid. Anyway, take care of your kids. Good night!”
Off course, you don’t need to tell lies. You just need to find similarities between you and her. And then you need to craft a text which spark her emotions and make her feel connected with you.
When Sue received Joe’s text, she felt a strong connection with him because Joe also lost one of his parents in his early age. Also, Joe’s text made her feel that Joe can become a good father of the current kids.
This only text made Joe to get a date with Sue.
Now back to what and how to text a girl you just met
Lesson from Joe’s story:
1. You must pay attention on your initial meeting. You must try to know her needs, hops, and similarities she has with you.
2. You must text her in the same evening or the same night so that she easily remember you.
3. Considering the lesson 1, you need to craft a text which can spark her emotions and make her feel connected with you (You can learn more about Radar text on Magnetic Messaging).
Things you need to avoid –
The worst thing you can do to text a girl you just met is to go on Google and search for the term “funny text messages to send a girl you just met”. Thereafter, send whatever texts which Google brings to you.
The problem with those pre-written texts is that they might spark her emotions but they are unable to make connection with her.
Also, this what most guys do, and you need to stand out from the crowd to get her attention and to date her.
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Alex J. Stevenson
Alex J. Stevenson is not a kind of dating expert who bangs a woman one night and runs after another one next morning. Instead, he is a fun-loving guy who has been reading dating and psychology books since last 6 years. If you tired of none working PUAs bullshit, you're welcome to his website.
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