So, you are wondering at the question why don’t girls text first. In this post, I will give you psychological reasons behind this, and I will also show you what to text to get them to respond you.
Before we go further, just do a simple task.
Type this phrase ‘dating tips for men’ on Google and take a quick search. You will see lots of pages for this search term.
You just need to neglect ‘wikihow’s’ pages for this search term. Go to a few of those websites and check their ‘about’ sections. ‘About’ pages are actually an intro page of the authors.
So, when you check their ‘About’ sections, you will normally end up with the stories like this:
“Hey, I am a former nerd. I had no success with women for years. And somehow I discovered how to trick women.
Now I have dated more than one thousand women. I bang 30 different women in 30 days, and bla bla bla!”
Now do a second search with this phrase ‘dating tips for women’.
Again, you need to do the same things as you did previously with phrase ‘dating tips for men’.
This time also check the ‘About’ section and see what the authors tell about themselves if they are female authors.
No matter, how much authority they have, if they are female author, they will never tell that they have dated with more than a thousand men, and they have slept with lots of men.
Here we comes in a good conclusion which is a thing which might be prestigious for men might be not prestigious for women.
So, what this has to do with the question ‘why don’t girls text first’?
The answer in simple words is girls don’t text first because they are taught to act this way by our society.
A girl doesn’t want to seem like a low value girl. And she is afraid being considered as a low value girl if she texts a guy first.
However, texting isn’t related with a girl’s value. But girls think this way because they are grown up with lots of social norms.
I don’t say that all girls don’t text first, but in most cases girls don’t text first.
Therefore, advice like ‘wait three days to text a girl for the first time’ doesn’t have any good logic.
In my advice, if a guy exchanges his number with a girl, then he should be first to text her. He should not wait for her text message to text her back.
Some guys says that if a guy text a girl first, then he will appear desperate and needy.
My advice to those guys is that if a guy doesn’t text a girl first, then he should wait for her text for lifetime.
On the other hand, if he texts first and he text the girl the right way, then he will appear a confident guy who doesn’t afraid of texting her.
Remember that most guys out there are sticking to the advice like ‘wait for a long time to text a girl you just met’.
So, you have much more advantage over those guys definitely.
If you recently got a number of a girl then stick to this advice:
- Text her the same day, or the next day. Don’t wait for more than a day for your first text message.
- Start with a RADAR text, instead of boring and casual text like ‘hope you went home safe’.
Remember that men and women have different values and they see the world from different angles.
A man can proudly say that he has slept with multiple women, but a woman can’t proudly say it even if she has done so.
As a man, you are thinking why don’t girls text first. And you are trying to find out the answer of this question in the way most men think.
But try to put yourself in the shoes of women. Try to think in the way they think. Soon, you will realize that even if a girl is dying to text you (or thinking about you all day), she isn’t going to text you first.
If she texts, then good luck. If she doesn’t, then it’s your job to text her first.
Then start a text conversation with her to build rapport with her. Thereafter, she may text you first to start a text conversation with you next time.
So, how can you do so?
Use the unknown tips of Magnetic Messaging system and get her to fall in love with you by just sending her the right text messages on the right time.
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Alex J. Stevenson
Alex J. Stevenson is not a kind of dating expert who bangs a woman one night and runs after another one next morning. Instead, he is a fun-loving guy who has been reading dating and psychology books since last 6 years. If you tired of none working PUAs bullshit, you're welcome to his website.
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